I’m OK, You’re My Parents: How to Overcome Guilt, Let Go of Anger, and Create a Relationship That Works
Dale Vicky Atkins
336 pages, Paperback
ISBN: 0805077944
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Language: English
Publish: January 2, 2005
“Atkins’s strength is in suggesting ways to rewire your relationship . . . If your parents drive you up the wall, there’s plenty here to help you. And the cost of the book is definitely cheaper than therapy.” — The Boston Globe
In a recent study, half of all Americans rated their relationship with at least one parent as either “poor” or “terrible,” and more than a third felt this way about both parents. As life expectancy continues to rise and the parent-child relationship extends further and further into adulthood, this problem has reached epidemic proportion.
I’m Ok, You’re My Parents offers practical, specific advice on how to
– exorcise the demons of anger and resentment
– untangle financial arrangements that cause stress and feelings of powerlessness
– set limits on parental demands for time and attention
– turn a spouse or friends into a powerful resource
– overcome your own resistance to change
– discover the redemptive power of humor
This will prove invaluable to anyone eager to get off the “treadmill,” gain control, and build a life that they and their parents can live with—forever.