Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships

1. Stupid SecretsWithholding important information for fear of rejection

2. Stupid EgotismAsking not what you can do for the relationship but only what the relationship can do for you

3. Stupid PettinessMaking a big deal out of the small stuff

4. Stupid PowerAlways trying to be in control

5. Stupid PrioritiesConsuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands, and chores instead of focusing on your relationship

6. Stupid HappinessSeeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places to satisfy the immature need to feel good

7. Stupid ExcusesNot being accountable for bad behavior

8. Stupid LiaisonsNot letting go of negative attachments to friends and relatives who are damaging to your relationship

9. Stupid MismatchNot knowing when to leave and cut your losses

10. Stupid BreakupsDisconnection for all the wrong reasons